A transgender Penn graduate student agreed that efforts to implement the gender identity clause would make Penn a more welcoming place.
The student, who preferred not to be identified by name, underwent a procedure known as "sexual reassignment surgery" this past summer to become a male. The student was born female.
"In the period where I was androgynous, it was uncomfortable where to go [to the bathroom], what to do when I was filling out forms," he said.
The student said that his decision to get a sex change came after a long period of knowing that he was "different."
"If you had asked me at 3 what I was, I would have said a boy," he said. "So puberty sucked and then I was attracted to the same sex. I thought lesbianism was the source of all my confusion."
"After a period of dating women, I began to realize that no matter how butch a woman is, they still want to be a woman," he said. "I love lesbians, they are cool, but I just got sick of always feeling uncomfortable in my own skin."
The student embarked on a process lasting over a year, during which he was required by law to see a therapist to make sure he wanted to go through with the sexual reassignment procedure.
He also started taking testosterone injections and went through a short trial period in which he tried to pass as a male.
Sexual reassignment surgery may or may not include changing of the genitalia. When a female wants to have surgery to become a male, doctors can either construct a penis-like structure or can add enough testosterone to the individual that the clitoris becomes a kind of micro-penis, Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Associate Director Erin Cross said. The scrotum can be constructed from vaginal skin and tissue, and testicular implants can be added.
He is currently awaiting a court date in May, as a result of which he will most likely be allowed to legally change his name and gender.
The student said he is dismayed that the surgery -- which can range from $3,500 to $100,000 -- was not covered by insurance. "They say it's elective, but when something is so ingrained in you, I don't think it's a choice but rather an option. That's like telling someone who has a heart condition that surgery is elective."
He said that now, after the surgery, he is both physically and emotionally changed for the better.
"I have a thicker neck now, I'm stockier, I have broader shoulders and my voice is different," he said. "I always looked like my dad, but now I'm the spitting image of my dad. It's kind of ridiculous."
"Every day I wake up and I have a moment of sheer gratitude for who I am," he added. "When friends see me they are in awe and tell me how much happier and more comfortable I look."
The student said that society should redefine the strict male/female dichotomy.
"Almost everyone breaks gender 'rules,'" he added. "With girls when they wear pants or guys with the whole metrosexual thing. Gender is kind of silly. It's something we often put on as a mask. A lot of what we do is socially constructed."
The student said that, to his knowledge, the transgender community is relatively small on campus.
"I don't know more than a couple people who are open about being trans," he said. "I don't even know if I am. If someone asks me point blank, I'll say something, but I'm not going to advertise it."
Given the size of the transgender community, the student said that he feels collaborating with the gay community on campus is beneficial.
"We all go through a period of recognition of who we are. We all worry about being shunned, and we all go through a similar coming-out process," he said. "Technically, though, I am a straight male now, so every now and then I wonder what I am doing hanging out with gays and lesbians. But this is the best place for us right now."

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Congrats on your SRS! I hope you're recovering well for the surgery and I'm so glad to hear a trans student on campus who can now feel comfortable with who he really is. random kudos. :) M adryael@sas.upenn.edu
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1) This is news? 2) Why is this guy anonymous? 3) If this surgery was covered by insurance, divorce should be covered as well. Bill, alum Ohio
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Just when I think there is nothing else the DP could do to be utterly offensive and ridiculous, they surprise me again. If anyone can justify to me that this sensationalized and exploitative article is a healthy examination of transgender issues then please try. To take someones personal information and dash it all over the front page simply for a "hot story" is nothing short of sleazy. The article on page 4 is much closer to a true look at transgender issues. Why isnt that on the front page? Oh DP... your priorities are suspect. Amma, student in ur bum aasare@sas.upenn.edu
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SRS in the same category of importance as heart surgery???? Takes a lot of balls to suggest that. I guess if you finally got'em, use'em. Alum DC
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If you think you're frustrated now, wait until the women see your micro-penis. Don't by that old line about size doesn't count. Spend the extra money and get it super-sized. Trust Me NYC
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Are you serious? It's like telling you a heart condition is elective? I don't think so. Heart surgery is needed to survive. Were you going to die if you didn't have your surgery? Kevin
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[QUOTE id="004f014a-95d0-438e-b437-759c40d69866"]Are you serious? It's like telling you a heart condition is elective? I don't think so. Heart surgery is needed to survive. Were you going to die if you didn't have your surgery? Kevin[/QUOTE] Yes that student might have died. When a gender desire is repressed it often caused depression, then suicide is right around the corner. Besides, the bad heart doesn't cause you to die; it's all your organs losing oxygen and dying off that does it.
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What alarms me (and I hope other reasonably compassionate observers as well) is the astonishing lack of imagination revealed by most of the comments to this article. First off, are you people seriously surprised the student elected to remain anonymous given the sorts of cracks people are posting about the surgical construction of a phallus? Presumably most educated adults know about (if they haven't seen) films like "Boys Don't Cry." It doesn't take a genius to realize what might happen to him if he "outs" himself. *This* sort of thing is presumably why he fails safest in the LGBT community. Secondly, the inability to empathize with his insurance woes strikes me as disgraceful in an academic community. He did spend a year in therapy, after all, and evidently he and his therapist concluded that continuing to live as a female was intolerable. To the extent that this process reflects the professional consensus about standards of care for patients with gender dysphoria, I fail to see where his insurance company gets off declaring it elective surgery. The heart surgery analogy, where hyperbolic, isn't that far off. Cardiac surgeons decide if heart surgery is necessary; psychiatrists ought to be able to make the same evaluation about SRS. Gender dysphoria is a continuum. There are sub-clinical cases, which do get resolved through therapy, there are other people who find ways to cope short of SRS (cross-dressing, etc), and there are people for whom SRS is the only possible choice. There are even some transsexuals (of both genders) who are not heterosexual after undergoing SRS. It's quite easy to ridicule 'lesbians in men's bodies' until you stop to think about what it must feel like to go through life that way. In other words, maybe we should ask ourselves why this is one of the last acceptable prejudices? Just Another Forward Observer, PhD Student Grad SAS
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I am wondering if after your surgery, and I am not trying to be volgur in any way. Was the size normal??